Thursday, November 11, 2010

Dream on!!!!!

“Your every Monday ko diet pe jaa rahaa hoon waala type resolution!! Gimme a break bro”

This message from my sister in the midst of a time pass discussion got me thinking, that all of us at some point in our lives have made some plans which we are not able to execute no matter how hard we try. This is the most commonly occurring phenomenon in our lives and sometimes makes us feel like a loser, a good for nothing and so on. I would be lying if I say that the thought that, I am about to share with you guys was a member of my school of thought for a very long time.

Quite often when the most commonly occurring phenomenon occurs, we go into a negative mode and in order to ensure that we don’t feel the same pain again we say that “we will not expect anything ever”. In the process of expecting less we confuse the two terms “dreams and expectations” to be the same and stop dreaming as often we used to earlier.

We do not realize that this ability to dream is a gift and is something that gives us hope and also keeps us going in normal and the toughest of situations. The trial and error situations that we get into, while pursuing our dreams however big or small helps us ascertain what exactly we want in life and helps us get there eventually. One example to back my last statement would be of a person with a few failed relations in the past still dreams to meet “the one” and it’s this dream that makes him continue his search.

There is no harm in dreaming as it will not cause any damage in the time to come. So without taking more of your time and giving you all some time to think about what I have said earlier I will end this post by saying two words “Dream on!!!!!”